) I decided to make this video because I kept getting emails from women and girls that sounded like this: My first reaction to these emails was: “You have social anxiety and no friends and you still have a boyfriend?! In fact it’s COMMON for quiet and shy girls to still have no trouble finding a boyfriend. See, as long as a girl is reasonably attractive, there will usually be a guy willing to invest the time and effort to get to know her slowly and get her out of her shell. At best, a girl may give a guy a few “signals” that she’s interested.Usually she thinks these are obvious, but to guys they’re very subtle…Almost everyone gets a little nervous before a first date.Below is a list of several dating tips for social anxiety that you can start to practice today: Think about dating realistically: I use Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) techniques to help you observe your thoughts and think differently.
If you are at an office or shared network, you can ask the network administrator to run a scan across the network looking for misconfigured or infected devices.so a girl could like you for years without you ever knowing and asking her out. I’m speaking from personal experience as well as YEARS of interacting with shy guys who can’t seem to attract a girlfriend even though they are intelligent, not ugly, and good people.So that’s one of the four things I talk about in the video: 1.And the problem is, women will rarely give you these “green lights,” even if they DO like you.See, if a woman likes a man, she may become more shy to avoid “messing up.” (A lot of women’s magazines repeat this advice over and over again.) 4.You often hear people joke about having anxiety in stressful situations, and you may even hear people who’ve actually been diagnosed with anxiety joking about it as well to deflect the stress with humor.But what a majority of people may not realize is, a person actually living with social anxiety may experience irrational fear, self-consciousness and embarrassment in everyday social situations.In this video, I talk about why it’s so much more difficult for a guy who is shy, quiet and introverted like you to get a girlfriend or even a date.(By the way, click here for the free report I mention at the end of the video called “3 Simple Steps To Overcome Shyness Around Girls.” — I guarantee you’ll love this! On the other hand, this will almost never happen to a guy.(like you are on the regular), but you’re also risking making a fool of yourself in front of someone you want to like you.In honor of National Mental Health Awareness Month, Elite Daily spoke to a few mental health experts to really break down how to go on a date if you have social anxiety.