He fumbles in his pocket, quick with fear, and slips his platinum wedding band back on his finger. Sugarland, “Stay”: Listening to them made me feel better. My tears fell as fast as the first thunderstorm of the year.“What are you saying? “I think I’m breaking up with you,” I said.“Maybe you should think about it more,” he pressed. I was a secure, confident woman and was not willing to compromise my life for a relationship and everything that came with it. He had his responsibilities with his wife and family. For those forty hours a week that his wife was working, he was mine. She does this because she says that no man can be trusted as they are all cheats Jenny had her first affair with a married man whose wife was pregnant. He told me he was married and that his wife was pregnant but that she wasn't interested in sex.I was surprised that I felt 100 per cent okay with what I was being told.You are evidence of his avoiding dealing with unpleasant situations head on. Having to keep your relationship a secret can attack your self-esteem and cause you to miss out on one of the wonderful aspects of a relationship. He has a legitimate married relationship that helps his public persona and he has an illegitimate one with you to make up for what heâs missing in his marriage. Even though he's the one that made it difficult to say "No." And even though he tells you how wonderful you are. Many men (and women) have difficulty accepting full responsibility for their deceitful actions.
The divot in his ring finger catches the light, reminding me of the torture I so often hide when we’re together. Like most everything else in my life, our relationship became punctuated by song lyrics I felt described our situation. I knew what I had to do, as much as I tried to ignore it. The chill had left the air and incoming Spring filled me with the power and motivation to do the hardest thing I knew I needed to do. We spoke sparingly over the next few days and it eventually faded to no communication. A year in, he told me he would leave his wife for me and I panicked.Unless otherwise indicated, all content is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution License. She claims to feel good about being 'chosen over' the wives and never feels guilty She said: 'We were in the Territorial Army together and he was married.I began to develop feelings for him and we became much closer than I planned.It reassured me someone went through the same things I did, that I wasn’t alone in my torture. I told him, “I won’t come to any different conclusion. But even through the music, I could feel things starting to fall apart. Take some time to get really clear with yourself about who you are and what you want.The most important relationship you’ll ever have in this world is the one you have with yourself.Jenny Hendle, above, 36, from Tunbridge Wells, has no interest in single men.Instead the mum of two says she will only date married men. She says being the other woman is flattering'We got chatting and he asked me out.