Dating a black guy

BUT EVERY NIGHT YOU GET AN SUV RIGHT IN THE HOO-HAW.

[LAUGHTER AND APPLAUSE] YOU MAY NEVER BUY A NEW CAR AGAIN.

Black women have told me it's because I'm a sellout.

The white men who can get past the mental anguish of my black penis tarnishing "their" women think I'm making some latent admission that their race has the most attractive women.

BUT YOU KNOW-- [LAUGHTER] HE IS THE BEST GUY IN THE WORLD.

[LAUGHTER AND APPLAUSE] BUT MY MOTHER I WAS SCARED OF HER, 'CAUSE WE'RE ITALIAN AND YOU KNOW HOW ITALIAN MOTHERS ARE.

The horror movie, whose trailer debuted yesterday (October 4), stars Daniel Kaluuya ("Sicario") as Chris, a young Black man in a relationship with Allison Williams' ("Girls") Rose.

When he visits the home of Rose's parents, played by Catherine Keener ("Capote") and Bradley Whitford ("The West Wing"), his fears about her White family's reaction to her dating a Black man turn to shock and desperation as eerie things begin to happen.

ME AND MY BLACK BOYFRIEND DARRELL JUST CELEBRATED OUR 2-YEAR ANNIVERSARY. 'CAUSE I'M TELLIN' YA, I'M POLITICALLY CORRECT BUT I WILL TELL YOU, I STAND BEHIND MY WORD. THAT'S 'CAUSE THEY LOVE THE PADUNKA-DUNK, YOU KNOW WHAT I'M TALKIN' ABOUT? But sometimes, like when I encounter a well-dressed family man with a mutual love for certain breakfast cereals, I wonder if I am failing my people.After all, 50 years ago in many states it was still illegal for us to marry anyone who was not also black. Although race relations are still far from perfect, I acknowledge the steps toward inclusion that we’ve made.The concept of a black man in a relationship with a white woman is a "thing" that people have an opinion on, and that opinion comes with an entire set of stereotypes, fueled by racist ideology, a complicated past, and sometimes even pop culture.Kanye West once rapped about how successful black men will "leave your ass for a white girl," and then put himself into that box by marrying a white woman, furthering the pervasiveness of flawed, generic ideas about interracial relationships.I walked down the cereal aisle in the grocery store, determined to finish my shopping list.As I skimmed my eyes across the rows of boxes, I landed on what I was looking for: a jumbo box of Rice Krispies. I turned around and saw a handsome black man waiting patiently, with a cart full of groceries and a warm smile that briefly invigorated my tired spirit after a long day of work. This encounter was nothing unusual; I frequently have similar encounters with strangers at the grocery store.Nevertheless, I still feel that, by not dating black men, I’m neglecting the shared history, solidarity and future prosperity of my fellow people.As a young girl and even throughout college, I was frequently annoyed when my peers would suggest that I would magically find a partner if I exclusively pursued black men.