But then I realized, I was dating a semi-professional football player who was 6’3 and 345 pounds. Unfortunately James didn’t have his life together, so he never seemed worth blogging about, until last night when I started thinking about the ongoing conversation that happens every time a Plus Size Princess says that she prefers a certain “type” of man.I’d dated tall/skinny guys before, but James was larger than me in every way and when he pulled me close I did feel somewhat small… I’ve mentioned here that I usually date guys with a basketball or baseball players build.(Skinny Men make Skinny Lovers)Sherlock If a guy has self confidence and a great personality and a loving heart and is involved with life..is very attractive. It's the ones who are worthwhile that are rare nomatter who you are. so dont be shy about approaching thin women either guys...and good lucki'm 21 and I definately would and have as some of the above posters have said, it comes down to confidence and being genuine.Societal standards of beauty are not only arbitrary but often literally impossible to achieve without Photoshop and make-up and there are assholes out there who feel empowered to mock fat people with impunity.But being large and in charge doesn’t mean that you’re doomed to a life of being forever alone; in fact, you may find that you have far more options for finding love, sex and happiness than you’d ever believe possible. There are plenty of notable examples out there if you look around. Seth Rogan is no Abercrombie and Fitch model but he’s also happily married.
Then of course there is the “Teddy Bear” thing, I love big men as much as I love my teddy bear, I feel safe with a big man, and when your in their arms, you know it. You don't have to wait perhaps years to find out they are shallow. gentle and loving is where its all at and lotssssssssssss of women feel that way , thin or heavy we women love with our hearts not our eyes as much..The thing about her was that she was big and very unattractive. Hell if it was not for women I wouldnt, take a bath, have a job, move out of my mammas basement, go to the GYM or eat healthy.If I didn't do most of them things, do you think anyone would be with me?And at the end of the day, nothing's going to change.So ladies and gentleman, improve what you can about to self, politically correct answers are not going to change a damn thing. I dated a big guy because he is a HUMAN BEING, first and foremost, just like the rest of the people of the world. I would have said yes if I wasn't dating my husband now at the same time. He just didn't made me feel special and taken care of and important like my husband.“You’re such a cute little thing,” James said, as he draped his arms around me in line at the movies.A week later we were walking across 23rd street holding hands.Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc.Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... Can I hold a conversation with him that goes on forever?In fact I prefer a guy to be average/chubby/skinny instead of extremely athletic body builder types (this just doesn't do anything for me..i guess its a generalization). I tend to look inside of a person first rather than outside..I have dated heavy guys who knows how to treat a lady. so defenetly I would without hesitation.l I've noticed in many threads about appearance that the vast majority of people say that it's what's on the inside that counts, and, coincidentally, they count themselves among the worthwhile people who are worth waiting for.