In our culture, dating is a means to learn how to relate socially with that half of the population that is of the opposite gender. What are some rules your parents have regarding dating? Keep this in mind when they discuss dating rules (such as curfew), and when they give answers or counsel to questions pertaining strictly to you alone such as, when you can start dating, how often to date, and when you are mature enough to begin dating one-on-one.
Dating is also a means of getting to know someone better. It's been said that common dating practices today prepare one for divorce. : In early adolescence, group dating can help girls and guys get used to doing things together on a social level. What do the following proverbs teach us about whom to date and not to date?
In this Bible study we will learn ways God wants us to develop Christian relationships through dating.
God has given us laws and wise policies to insure peace and enjoyable, uplifting relationships. 4:1-2: “Hear, my children, the instruction of a father, And give attention to know understanding; For I give you good doctrine: Do not forsake my law.” 5. : Parents are the people who know you best and always have your best interests at heart.
From friendships to dating, these are the years that Christian teens start building ties outside of the family.
While these relationships are an exciting time for Christian teens, they also come with their own issues and hazards.
We suggest that you try to do one lesson each week; this will keep your interest in them active. But first...a quick message from our commercial sponsor... Every relationship you have should first honor and glorify God. I'm talking about every aspect of your life should be based on biblical principles. It does talk about relationships though...including teen dating. Before you engage in physical contact...remember that the person you're becoming intimate with may not be your spouse. We find what Paul is talking about in Exodus which says... It's almost the same...right down to the promise at the end which Paul talks about in verse three in Ephesians. Honour doesn't necessarily mean "obey" like in verse one. No matter where you are in life..should always honor your parents. They even know a lot more than you do no matter what you think. In the next few days...we'll look at a few helps on teen dating... ) Let me just share this little bit of advice with you again... Notice this covers everything not just teen dating... Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you, And will be a Father unto you, and ye shall be my sons and daughters, saith the Lord Almighty. In fact the passage doesn't say anything at all about marriage. Don't get me wrong..long as you live with your parents... Verse two isn't just for children...it's for everybody..adults. When Paul wrote this, he was quoting from the Ten Commandments. He's put your parents where they are as your...parents! On completion of the full course you will receive a beautifully presented certificate.Should you have difficulty opening these files or sending the email please let us know by return email.We suggest that you print these lessons and put them in a binder for future studies. A TRUE STORY BY SOMEONE WHO WAS SEEKING LOVE During high school, I dated a lot of guys and I was hurt a lot.I was a very vulnerable girl because I wanted someone to love me. The problem was finding the right person to love and have them appreciate and enjoy my love.Doing them with parents of one or more on the date will lessen the pressure and temptations that would occur if dating alone. Let each of you look out not only for his own interests, but also for the interests of others.” 2. (: Respect for one another should rule over all else. When, if ever, do you think it is good to have a chaperone? I want to make sure you undestand how I set this thing up. Paul is talking about an "emotional fire." I guess you could call it a "fire of passion." Touching in an attempt to get your girlfriend or boyfriend "in the mood" isn't acceptable Christian behavior. The world has no problem starting "fires of passion." But we aren't like the world. Suddenly the issues of sex and boundaries start to arise, and teens find themselves having to choose sides on "hot button" topics like homosexuality and abortion.There is a lot of growing to do in all aspects of relationships, and having Biblical and Christian guidance is essential.