But I want to lay these out first -- because they're so vital to solid message writing -- and we'll get into the "whys" and the "hows" in a moment.I was going to write about something else today -- I have a couple of big-concept posts I've been meaning to write up and get around to -- but, heck, the last post I put up was a big-concept post so I figured let's have a quick breather from that and get something a little lighter up first. I've been all too guilty of this myself -- sending super-long messages.There are things that we make happen that excite, stimulate, create interest and confound. And yet previous generations managed to succeed on a far less complex courtship criteria list.Many arranged marriages work all too interestingly.What happens is that we forget most of them after the age of 21, and then realize we need to relearn them.I wish there weren't any general rules, but courtship is a ritual. If we just threw ourselves together, then the chances of long term happiness might be compromised.Turns out 59 percent of guys and girls don't want to be inundated with texts after a date before they get a chance to reply — and when it comes to the work day, less is definitely more.Plus, 45 percent of dudes don't want to be bothered with a message when they’re on the clock, but women, notorious for multitasking, seem to balance the workday and a steamy conversation just fine.
In the same way, women have some general rules that they should contend with when entering the dating jungle.
Or if he really needs to be taught a lesson, schedule a Monday night dinner.
A lady will not allow a gentleman to make last minute plans, even if he tells her he loves a spontaneous girl.
But that aside, what do guys really think about having full-on conversations without ever really saying a word? I'm heading to the East Village, any chance you want to meet up?
Is bearing your virtual soul through the tips of your fingers and into a text a burden dudes bare — or the best way to get to know a girl? ' It's like, whoa, calm down, I haven’t even had a chance to respond yet."Giphy Pet peeves guys can live with — like too many smiley faces or even the occasional run-on text. "Photofunky Ben, 26, totes has no room in his vocab or his life for abbrevs. Chances are you have an i Phone and once you start typing the word it will finish it for you."In a similar vein, Josiah, 31 says, "It's a big turn-off when a girl tries to be more street or thug than she really is." Related: 16 Life-Changing Quotes From The Internet's Most Mysterious Poetweheartit No matter what you think, there are rules when it comes to texting.